Amazing what you’ll find on Facebook. An old acquaintance of mine who happens to be a “friend” on Facebook posted a rather lengthy manifesto after her experience at the Passion Conference this past weekend. For the uninitiated, the Passion Conference has been going on for some years now, led by Louie Giglio (whom I am told is quite a speaker in the church growth movement) which features a lot of rock-type “praise” music, powerful preaching, and so on. Never been to one, but this is the impression I get from folks who have been there. My boss says the music is all 7-11 songs. The same seven lines, sung eleven times. Anyway, here’s what she wrote:
This weekend was Passion Regionals in Atlanta and I had the opportunity to volunteer. It was an amazing weekend of renewal mixed with personal challenge. Speakers included Louie Giglio and Francis Chan and worship leaders Chris Tomlin, Charlie Hall and David Crowder. God was certainly glorified!
So today I started reading Francis’s new book, Crazy Love, which I picked up at the conference. I’ve only read the first chapter, and already I’m starting to remember the untruths I believed about God, Christians and the Church when I was growing up. I’m not blaming my church; without them I wouldn’t have necessarily experienced the fundamentals that I now take for granted (I’m learning that over and over, and repenting for it!). Don’t get me wrong; my parents never taught me these things overtly, nor did the church. However, here are the top 5 myths about God, Christians and the Church that I came up with:
1. God is big and powerful, and he lives up in Heaven, but is somewhat disconnected from us.
2. To be a Christian, there are all kinds of rules to follow, most of which involve a long list of things not to do.
3. Church is where Christians go on Sunday and if you don’t go, you’d better be hospitalized or gravely ill.
4. Don’t hang around people who don’t go to church because they will be a bad influence on you.
5. Worship = Hymns (verses 1, 2 and 4) or Latin Songs that nobody understands.
Now this may all seem absurd to some of you, but how many of us are still living as if these “myths” are reality? For example, how many of us have meaningful relationships with people who aren’t believers? Or how many feel that God takes attendance at church every Sunday and if you’re not there, you’ll be punished? And I’d venture to say that lots of believers say that they have a relationship with God, but still feel at times, really disconnected from Him.
I’m confessing now with a repentant heart that I do not believe these lies anymore. God is very near to my heart now, and having a relationship with Him isn’t about what NOT to do, but rather how to ENJOY His love and all He can do through me. I missed church today, but still had fellowship with Him and other believers. I am intentional in developing relationships with those who don’t yet know the love of Christ. And I know worship can involve singing, clapping, jumping (as demonstrated by the students at Passion!), or…watch out now…raising your hands! Who would have known?!
Ok, now for the record, she and I are on exactly the same page with regard to having friends of different beliefs. I have lots of non-Catholic friends and family members and try to be a good representation of the Faith without ramming the Truth down their throats (and the last part of that statement was written with tongue planted firmly in cheek.) Taking her “lies” on a one-by-one basis:
1. She’s right – we shouldn’t consider God to be “disconnected” from us. But, by the same token, too many folks take the “accepted Jesus Christ into your heart as your personal Lord and Savior” thing too far, to the exclusion of all else – like what you DO as a result of that relationship, for example. I have a co-worker who, whenever I speak of anything liturgical with Methodist of Presbyterian co-workers, says “I just love Jesus.” Something there about babies who aren’t ready for solid food. Of course there’s more to it than just loving Jesus – there’s work you do following him, the sacraments, and so on. Sanctification. Shouldn’t place so much focus on the “personal relationship” that we forget about serving Him.
2. This is like #1 – if you’re so wrapped up in the personal relationship aspect of the faith, you miss out on the fact that you are supposed to “do” and “not do” certain things. No, the rule book is not the primary focus of the faith, but it is there, and it’s there for a reason. Sanctification. Of course, coming from a sola fide mindset it’s hard to consider that one might have to do anything at all (except believe, which is a work itself, and I’ve gotten into the convoluted thought processes behind this in previous posts. I’ll spare you now.)
3. Well, Jesus is there at Church. He asks an hour a week. He wants to be physically present to us and in us. He gave us the Eucharist. If you miss that, then obviously, going to church on Sunday would be a matter of personal preference. If you’re just going to hear someone preach, you can do that equally well on the sofa at home or at a rock concert masquerading as a worship service.
4. Personally, I think it’s a good rule for teenagers to follow, not to hang out with people of a different value system, as they will be a bad influence on you. Teenagers of course think that they have it all figured out (though for some reason I never really had that feeling as a teenager, I have known enough to know that most do) and that they can avoid negative influences. Or, they excuse it with “I am sharing the gospel with them so I should spend time with them.” Simple fact is, to a teenager, the things that teens of a different value system tend to do are a heck of a lot more fun that the things that a solid Christian teenager tends to do. And, being exposed to such stuff as a teenager can result in developing a greater sense of moral relativism and “tolerance” (2007 definition, not the dictionary definition) which will make the liberals very happy but which results in someone ultimately drifting away from their faith because, hey, what’s the point?
5. In college I went through a period of thinking that rock music could be a legitimate part of a church service. Then what I realized was that the rock music was creating an emotional high that felt good but had no real depth or impact on my faith. Now I have gone back the other way…I have seen how Life Teen music done in the most flamboyant of ways waters down the awesomeness of what happens at Mass (and thankfully, many teen and college types are seeing the same thing,) and essentially, rock music at Mass insults the intelligence and spiritual depth of the communicants, because it says “you need to be attracted by this music because nothing else that’s going on here would interest you.” All that said, I still to this day think that “praise choruses” have a legitimate place in worship services/concerts which are separate from Mass or any other formal church service for that matter. As for Latin songs that no one understands, it’s very easy to find out what the Latin means if you’ll go to the trouble. Latin’s part of the universality of the Church which has been rejected for 500 years by Protestants.